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A Family Torn Apart: Husband Abandons Wife and Children After 16 Years, Son Accuses Mother and Rejects Living Together

Tetyana Fomina
May 26, 2023
08:47 A.M.
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After 16 years, a man abruptly decides to end his marriage. Their son holds his mother responsible for tearing their family apart and refuses to live with her.

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After a lengthy 16-year marriage, Ted made the decision to call it quits. "I'm tired of your constant complaining!" he shouted at his wife, Joanna, as he carried a bag of his belongings down the stairs. "Ted, take out the garbage. Ted, don't spend so much time watching TV. Ted, don't drink excessively. I've had enough!" he yelled.

"It's not complaining, Ted. It's called showing concern," Joanna cried. She didn't want to separate and hoped to reconcile with her husband, but Ted refused to listen.

"I can't handle you any longer. I've endured your complaints for 16 years, and I can't bear them anymore!" he stated, walking out the front door.

Their son, Adam, overheard their conversation and rushed out of his room. "Dad! No!" he exclaimed, running down the stairs.

"Please, don't leave! Stay with us!" he pleaded, embracing his father's waist as they headed toward the sidewalk.

"Son, no. I can't stay here any longer. I'm renting a place in the neighboring apartment complex. You can move in with me," Ted informed Adam.

Once Ted was out of sight, Adam turned to his mother. "Are you happy now? This is all your fault!" he said, heading back inside the house.

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Joanna felt deeply wounded hearing those words from her son and couldn't help but cry on their front porch. She remained seated on the ground for a few minutes, gradually coming to terms with the painful reality that she and her husband were separated, and their son held her responsible.

Joanna was devastated that Ted chose to separate. | Source: Pexels

Joanna was devastated that Ted chose to separate. | Source: Pexels

Joanna made every effort to support her son over the next few days. She wanted to maintain a sense of normalcy by preparing delicious home-cooked meals for him and ensuring his school supplies were organized.

"I don't want another home-cooked meal. I want a burger and fries," he would reply.

"Son, you consume too much fast food. It's not good for your health. We can have fast food on the weekend," Joanna would explain. "Come out of your room and take out the trash. We can eat afterward," she added.

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Adam rolled his eyes. "I'm tired of your complaints! I can see why Dad left. All you care about is having us follow your orders. I don't want any part of it. I'm going to live with him!" Adam declared, grabbing his backpack from under his bed and walking out of the house.

Joanna felt her heart break. Her entire world had crumbled, and just as Ted and Adam blamed her, she began blaming herself as well.

She cried all night, realizing that the empty house felt cold and silent without Ted and Adam by her side. Meanwhile, Adam arrived at Ted's door, only to encounter something unexpected.

Joanna cried for days after Ted and Adam left her. | Source: Pexels

Joanna cried for days after Ted and Adam left her. | Source: Pexels

Ted's apartment reeked of neglected garbage that hadn't been disposed of for quite some time. His clothes lay scattered across the floor, and there was no designated room for Adam to stay in.

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"You can sleep on the couch or the floor," Ted remarked, plopping himself down on the couch in front of the TV as soon as he let Adam in. "Do whatever you want," he added.

Ted gave Adam free rein to do as he pleased. Using his own allowance, Adam ordered fast food every day, leading to stomach issues after just one week.

"Dad, do you have any regular food? My stomach is starting to act up from all the fast food I've been eating," Adam asked. Opening the refrigerator once again, he found nothing but beer inside.

"Mom always cooked delicious meals," Adam whispered to himself, closing the refrigerator door. "Could you cook something for me, Dad? Maybe some soup? My stomach hurts," he requested, addressing his father.

Adam ate fast food for an entire week, which made his stomach hurt. | Source: Pexels

Adam ate fast food for an entire week, which made his stomach hurt. | Source: Pexels

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"I can't cook, and I don't have any stomach medicine. Just go to sleep and stop complaining like your mother," Ted retorted.

Adam couldn't believe his father's lack of concern for his well-being. It slowly dawned on him that he had misjudged his mother. She hadn't been nagging them all those years; she had been expressing her care and concern.

"You know what, Dad?" Adam began, his voice filled with newfound understanding. "Mom wasn't just complaining about the things we did. She was only showing us how much she cared. She wanted us to be healthy, and she wanted our family to be happy."

Ted became angry, interpreting Adam's words as taking Joanna's side. "Then go back to your mother!" he shouted at his son.

Adam went back home to his mom, realizing he was wrong all along. | Source: Pexels

Adam went back home to his mom, realizing he was wrong all along. | Source: Pexels

Disillusioned by his father's behavior, Adam packed the few belongings he had at his father's apartment and made his way back home. As he entered the house, he was greeted by a quiet and empty atmosphere.

Deciding to take initiative, Adam took out the garbage and tidied up the house before heading upstairs. When he opened his mother's bedroom door, he found her lying in bed.

"Mom," he called out, rushing to her side. "I'm truly sorry for being rude to you and hurting you with my words," Adam cried. "I now understand that what you were doing wasn't complaining but showing care. Thank you for caring for me, Mom."

Joanna's face lit up with joy as she embraced her son tightly. She was overjoyed to have him back with her. Soon after, she suggested they have fast food for dinner, but Adam shook his head, revealing that he had already prepared a homemade meal for them downstairs.

What can we learn from this story?

It is crucial to appreciate the efforts of your mother or wife. Their intentions are always good. Sometimes, men mistakenly perceive their mothers or wives as sources of difficulty, when in reality, all they want is what's best for their loved ones.

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